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Dating Tips For Guys
So,
you're interested in getting out there. Taking the plunge, making
the big jump, getting off of the singles wagon and finding a girl
to spend the rest of your life with - or at least have some good
times with.
It can be a little frightening, and for most
men, you probably feel like you're fumbling in a dark room, and
can't find the light switch. Let me flip it on for you, and give
you some dating tips for guys of all ages, and skill levels.
Dressing Well is Important
Most men don't pay attention to what they dress,
especially as they get older. They simply say, 'Eh, it's me. I don't
care. I'm a guy, I'm not supposed to care'. But it's not true, and
there's no excuse, in a girls eyes, for not having it together.
This means that your presentation is everything
- and not only when you're first meeting someone, but well into
the dating process, too. This includes keeping your hair washed
and looking decent (You don't have to spend hours on it, but it
shouldn't look like you just rolled out of bed), having clean, stylish
clothing that reflects your personality, and a washed, clean face
and body.
It's not hard, once you're in the habit, of
keeping yourself up… and you'll find that it pays off a lot.
Every Woman Wants Their Knight in Shining
Armor
This is something that's not talked about a
lot when you're looking for dating tips for guys, but there's no
question - every woman is looking for their knight in shining armor
to sweep them off of their feet and ride them into the sunset on
their white steed. Which is rather impractical, if you think about
it, considering that the sun would be in your eyes and all.
Anyway, it's what a woman wants - and you don't
have to change your personality to be that ideal man. Doing small
things each and every time you meet her is something that makes
a huge difference.
Open her doors, and pull out her chair for
her. Wait to eat until she does, and stand when she gets up…
most women don't pay attention that their man doesn't
do these things, so when you do them, you'll instantly be raised
in her mind. And if she remembers you in a positive way, chances
are, you'll meet again.
To Act or Not To Act
A lot of 'Dating Tips for Guys - The Best Book/Website/DVD
Ever!' informational products will tell you that you need to do
something to impress a woman… but it's just not true.
A lot of guys, because of what they read, rend
to put on an act when they're with a woman, especially if they're
nervous, or if they haven't done much with women before. They act
smart, macho, tough, 'cool', or something else entirely.
Most men think that this is what a girl wants
- but it's not! Most women hate that men try to 'fool' them by putting
on an act and being something that they're simply not. I was told
once, and this has stuck with me, from a single woman that they
value a man who's themselves much more than they value an act.
Don't act, you're not fooling anyone.
Overall…
Dating takes a lot of common sense, so don't
avoid your brain while you're dating. Watch her cues, and really
listen to the woman that you're talking to; if you don't, she'll
know, and she'll never appreciate it.
It's not hard, dating. And no matter what you
look like, who you are, or what your personality is, you can
find a nice, good woman.
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