5
Ways to Set Your
Conversation on Fire
Ever need to strike a conversation? Spice a
dinner up? Are you feeling like you need a good discussion, but
when it comes down to it, have no idea what you're doing?
It happens.
Here are our five top ways to set your conversation
on fire!
1: Don't Avoid Uncomfortable Discussions
The only way that you're going to get to know
someone is if you both really talk – so don't avoid any uncomfortable
discussions, from past relationships to the color of panties she's
wearing. You're doing your relationship a disservice by it.
Be ready to talk about everything, because
if you are, you're going to not only have amazing conversation,
but a strong, healthy relationship.
2: Observe
Sometimes the funniest things are right in
front of you, so be observant when you're out. Make jokes about
someone in front of you in line (Quietly, or in the car), notice
what she's wearing, and don't be afraid to point things out.
Most men aren't very observant – they
spend their entire lives sort of floating around, going from place
to place but never seeing where exactly they are. If you show her
that you're observant, while making great conversation, not only
will you have things to talk about, but you'll impress her, too.
3: Get To The Serious Issues
Small talk is great, when you're getting coffee,
filling up the car with gas, or something else entirely. But you
know, when all is said and done, small talk gets you nowhere fast.
When you're craving good conversation, get
to the deeper issues than what she ate for dinner last night, or
what she was wearing yesterday. Talk about something that really
means a lot to you – like the fight against cancer or Alzheimer's,
animal testing, or something else entirely.
You should never be afraid to talk about the
serious issues facing you, because if you are, you're probably not
with the right person. Be open – it makes a difference.
4: Ask Questions to Get Answers
Anyone can ask questions like 'how was your
day' and 'what do you like to eat', but not everyone can ask the
more serious questions, like 'what was your life like growing up',
'do you ever sleep with old boyfriends', or something else entirely.
Ask the questions to get the answers, and bloom
the subjects to more. Don't be afraid to give detailed answers to
the questions that she asks, too – it's the only way to get
good conversation.
5: Share Your Views
The big thing that guys are afraid of is sharing
their views with other women. They think that, if they have a different
political view, or like a different basketball team, the woman in
question will think less of them.
Nothing is farther from the truth. They want
to know what you're feeling, what you like, and who you're voting
for. Even if you have different thoughts, you can make a relationship
work.
Overall…
Share yourself for good conversation. Experiment
with topics, try something new, and always ask questions. It's the
only way a real conversation can get off the ground!
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